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Once my husband, who is in the U.S. Navy, got orders to attend the Naval Postgraduate School in Monterey, Calif., we immediately wondered where should we live. While Monterey was definitely an option, there were also such neighboring cities as Carmel-by-the-sea, Pacific Grove and Seaside to consider.
My Traveling Troop isn’t the only military family that has pondered this question, and we won’t be the last. With both NPS and the Defense Language Institute calling Monterey home, the students who attend these schools and their families will also face the question: Should we live in Monterey or elsewhere? And, should we live in military housing or civilian housing?
Each family has unique needs, likes and dislikes when it comes to housing. As a result, I asked military families in the area to share with My Traveling Troop and yours where they chose to live and why. Hopefully, they’re answers will help military families about to move to the area narrow the choices down and make a decision that is right for them.
Cheers,
Kristina
Carmel:
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Charming shops like Cottage of Sweets line Ocean Avenue,
the main drag in Carmel-by-the-sea.
(Photo by Kristina Doss for My Traveling Troop) |
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A beautiful beach awaits locals, tourists and military families
at the end of Ocean Avenue in Carmel-by-the-sea.
(Photo by Kristina Doss for My Traveling Troop) |
“We chose to live in Carmel during our NPS tour. We loved the quaint downtown area, amazing array of chef owned and operated restaurants, and of course the location. The most decisive attribute for us, however, was the schools. The Carmel Unified School District enjoys a well-deserved excellent reputation and we have been very happy with the caliber of teachers and class sizes. That isn't to say that living in a tourist destination/vacation home locale for the wealthy and advanced in age doesn't have its drawbacks. The trade offs are older, smaller homes and no sidewalks. And we have had to be selective about which restaurants we frequent since some are more kid-friendly than others. With all these weighed though, we feel we made the right decision.”
-- by Allyssa Garcia Calhoun, an Air Force wife and stay-at-home mom of two.
Monterey
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Cannery Row in Monterey is a waterfront district filled with shops and
restaurants. (Photo by Kristina Doss for My Traveling Troop) |
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Monterey's El Estero Park features a lake with paddle boat and picnic
opportunities and the Dennis the Menace playground.
(Photo by Kristina Doss for My Traveling Troop) |
“My family chose to live in Monterey, because we wanted to spend more time as a family having fun rather than sitting in a car. We can walk to Cannery Row, a waterfront district that is steeped with history and filled with shops, restaurants, wine-tasting rooms and an aquarium. We can also walk or take a short drive to Pacific Grove, which has a charming downtown filled with shops and restaurants too. Moreover, we can easily access the Monterey Bay Coastal Recreation Trail -- a beautiful path that our family can walk, jog or bicycle on while enjoying views of the ocean. In addition, there are plenty of playgrounds, both big and small, in Monterey too. Overall, we’re happy with the city we chose to live in and the extra time the strategic location has given us to spend as a family.”
-- by Kristina Doss, a Navy wife, mom, journalist and founder of My Traveling Troop.
“Off base, we can walk to our local library (which has wonderful events), the farmers’ market, the post office and Trader Joe's. We have a great park nearby. Being out in town I feel more connected to the art community and other local events, and for a brief stint we feel a little more like a civilian family, which is fun. We still have tons of military friends, and I can see that on base there is a nice community and instant friends for the kids. But I love the quaint old neighborhood with old growth trees and idyllic trails. I feel like I'm experiencing the area differently this way.”
-- by a military-family member living in Monterey.
Pacific Grove
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Pacific Grove boasts a number of attractions, including
Lovers Point Park -- a popular spot for having a picnic,
climbing rocks or gazing at the ocean.
(Photo by Kristina Doss for My Traveling Troop) |
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Carrie and Burke Eltringham, a military family living in Pacific Grove,
enjoying time in stunning Big Sur -- just a half hour drive away.
(Photo provided by Carrie Eltringham) |
“When (my husband) Burke was accepted by the Marine Corps to attend NPS, we flew up to beautiful Monterey to look for homes. Over the course of a couple days, Burke and I looked at many homes in Monterey, Pacific Grove and Carmel. We both fell in love with the sleepy town of Pacific Grove, and that's where we ultimately chose to rent a townhome. Pacific Grove has a very small town, ‘wave at your neighbor,’ feel to it. The town boasts several attractions such as Lovers Point Park, monarch butterflies at the Monarch Grove Sanctuary, Point Pinos Lighthouse and breathtaking views from the recreation trail. At any given time, you can hear the sea gulls or see the seals turning flips in the water. If you are a foodie, Pacific Grove houses many of Monterey County's finest restaurants such as PassionFish, Peppers Mexicali Cafe and Red House Cafe. With Pacific Grove’s Lighthouse Cinema right down the block, Pacific Grove is a wonderful place for a walkable ‘dinner and a movie.’ Burke loves the proximity to the Pacific Grove Municipal Golf Links (5 min), NPS (10 min) and Peppers Mexicali Cafe (walking distance). I love the security, relaxing pace and the distance to the recreation trail. We love living in Pacific Grove and our only complaint is that we will only be here for 18 months!” -- by Carrie Eltringham, a Marine wife and director of sales and marketing for WellBeing Hygiene, a small touch-free hygiene services company based in Georgia.
Seaside
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Seaside Beach offers stunning views of towering sand dunes.
(Photo by Kristina Doss for My Traveling Troop) |
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Monterey can also be seen from the shores of Seaside.
(Photo by Kristina Doss for My Traveling Troop) |
“We bought a house because at the time the housing market was near the all time low, and we thought it would be a great financial investment. So far, it has been. We chose Seaside because of the affordable housing and proximity to NPS. We looked at other houses in other cities, but we were out bid on the houses. In a way, Seaside chose us. I like Seaside because it is close to stores, NPS and the beach. It is also far enough away that i don't have to sit in too much traffic, or pay the higher property tax of Carmel and Monterey. There are many parks near the house too, where we love taking the dog to run and my child to play on the swings.”
-- by Teresa M., a Navy wife from Texas and stay-at-home mom to a son.
“We moved here from overseas, so were very concerned with where we would live once we got here. Since housing costs are high in the area, we knew military housing was best for our large family. I'm very pleased with our choice to live in Doe Park in Seaside, Calif. The houses are new and clean, the neighborhood is safe and friendly, and my kids love the parks and sidewalks.”
-- by Chelsie Mullett, an Army wife, mother of 3 and owner of Chelsie Mullett Photography (www.ChelsieMullettPhotography.com)
(Are you a military family living near Monterey? Would you like to add your family's city of choice and the reasons behind it to this post? Email me at mytravelingtroop@gmail.com Thanks!)